If you don't want to end up with potty brain trying to navigate toilet training your tot, then read Oh Crap! Potty training. I committed and followed 98% what the author suggested (stick to it as much as you can) other than, 1 I didn't fill up my toddler with juice to bring on wee, water was fine and 2 my toddler was 32 months, which is just older than the book suggests when they should be trained. My toddler was day and night trained at once and moved through the blocks in reasonable time. My toddler responded well to the approach with little behaviour problems other than a bit of BPP (read book to find out what this means!) The book helps you navigate common behavioural issues too. Insist on support from those around you, be confident, stick with it as it can be tough at times but when they 'get' weeing and pooing in the potty, it is so worth the effort. Good luck you can do it.